Sorry for the delay since my last missive, but we've been doin' stuff. Just as when you're going on holiday you go with a list of things you'd like to see and do, (or maybe that's just me, my family and close friends often joke at my expense, 'Les is coming to visit, that'll mean going to an art gallery then...) when we moved out here we (maybe I) did some research and came up with a mental to do list.
Thus we recently went dune bashing, a name/description that always baffled me? Why not dune cruising or just dune driving? I'll tell you why..
Having found a local company and in the process saving a two hour round trip to Dubai, we were picked up on time by our driver for the day in his Toyota Land Cruiser. Off we went at a sedate pace to the rendezvous in the desert and marveled/reveled in the splendor of the wilderness while the other clients arrived. When the group was complete we set off, only to find that a car had got stranded on the peak of a dune, its wheels spinning helplessly. Our driver was asked to help and whilst I don't speak his language, I could tell he was less than impressed with his colleague who had managed to get stuck in what he considered to be a car park. See picture 1.
So we unceremoniously heaved them off the crest and set off in pursuit of the group. Now you need to know that in the blurb you get for the tour they describe this as being 'adrenaline fueled', however I have done some off road stuff in the UK and whilst it had its full throttle moments, most of the time you were being told to 'go slowly and maintain traction', so that was my reference point for 4x4 adventures. As I mentioned, we set off in pursuit, much as a greyhound chases a phoney rabbit. We seemed to be crossing the sand at the speed of light, the driver put his headlights on and it lit up the road behind, you were right Albert.. The car was sideways, pointing down at 181 degrees, pointing up at 359 degrees, we didn't know if it was Christmas, Easter or our birthdays, but we did know it was fun! We were a whooping and a hollering and the driver clearly believed in the fairground maxim of 'scream if you want to go faster'. We did, and so did he.. See picture 2.
It's worth mentioning that our four year old is notoriously car sick, so we were a bit worried that the Land Cruiser could become the Vomit Comet. However, far from being sick she was bouncing around in the third row shouting 'faster, faster!'. After an afternoon of seemingly impossible descents and moments where you were convinced the thing was going to roll over, (sand coming over the side window gives you that impression) we arrived at the Bedouin camp where we spent the night being fed and entertained. See picture 3.
How would I summarise our adventure? It was excellent, truly exciting and in an amazing environment. Even this close to civilization the desert is a place that is breathtaking and awe inspiring, I can only imagine what it's like in the middle of a huge expanse such as the Sahara. The hospitality was superb and we all had a great time. My advice would be that if you want to go dune bashing don't go alone, and use someone else's car, preferably with a roll cage, it makes you feel better.
Now the second bit of stuff what we done (use that for language analysis Camille :-)). It seems a shame not to live in the UAE and not go up the Burj Khalifa. See picture 4.
According to Wikipedia (never wrong) it is the tallest man made structure in the world, and the observation deck on the 124th floor is the third highest in the world. I personally think that it is beautiful and the fact that the architects and engineers combined an aesthetically pleasing design in a building of extreme functionality is a credit to human endeavor. Ascending in the lift you get virtually no sensation of movement, just the popping of your ears and the fast scrolling digitalised display of the floor you are passing to let you know that you're going up faster than the price of gas in a cold winter.
Once on the viewing floor you are at first amazed by the sheer height and then immediately made aware of the geography of this part of Dubai. See picture... you get the idea.
Desert, waterway, random skyscraper. Why build upwards so much when you could go sideways? What do I know, I'm not a town planner. You then see the nearby buildings along with the Big Ben replica. I don't know the answer to your question, 'why'?
Then in the mist the Burj Arab and Atlantis on the Palm.
I thoroughly enjoyed the perspective that it gives you and will be going again in a few weeks time. After all if someone has gone to all that effort to build it, it would seem rude not to have another look.
In true EAL teacher style, have a look at this photo and tell me what you see.
You may have thought that it's a group of people on scrub-land in an industrial area, and you're right. But look more closely and you'll see that it's actually two games of cricket, one in the foreground and one in background, slightly obscured by the white cars. If you look at the nearest wicket, the group on the right are the crowd or waiting batsmen and the dark coloured car is in short mid on.
In the game that's furthest away, the collection of white vehicles are parked in the slips and gulley and a good shot to deep mid-on would leave the ball amongst the lorries. Just to the left of the trucks are some blokes using the back of a van as a makeshift stand. The wickets themselves are on a road so when a taxi comes down it this happens:
and play has to stop while it passes. Either that or a batsman has just hit the ball and jumped in the cab to grab a sneaky run. Whether it then reversed up for the second I don't know. In this picture you can also see food delivery van parked in forward square leg, don't all cricket pitches have that?! I would like to thank Wikipedia for the names of various cricket fielding positions, which has saved my Dad and my friend Simon's embarrassment at my lack of knowledge in that area..
What I'm ambling towards here are my observations on sport out here. Cricket is an obsession with men from the Indian sub-continent, although obsession is probably an understatement. You don't realise how much they like it until you live, work and teach amongst them. So every Friday morning pieces of what you thought were scrub land turn themselves in to cricket pitches. Some of them have hardened wickets so the batting surface is relatively flat, whilst the out fields are always rubble strewn. None of the pampered lush green cricket grounds that you get in the UK. This next picture gives you an idea of the terrain we are talking about:
The fielders closest to us are on the boundary and there is a ring of slightly larger rocks that mark it. We've seen at least a dozen grounds like this in the town, which must make cricket the most popular sport for participation here, although the local lads do play a lot of football. I am full of admiration for people that play and enjoy sport in less than ideal conditions. It seems to fit in with the concept that you should enjoy it for what it is rather than what you wear or the kudos of where you do it.
I'm not sure where the UAE sits on this. As a county it gives the appearance of being sport mad, there are numerous prestigious golf and tennis events out here, not to mention the Formula 1 grand prix races. The headquarters of the ICC (International Cricket Council) are in Sharjah and again there are spectacular cricket matches played in the area. On a local level in RAK, there are two golf courses, which are reasonably priced for those in the region but prohibitively expensive for ordinary folk. Tennis is virtually non existent, as far as I know there are only six courts in the town perimeter and none of these are covered so playing in the summer is a no-no.
This weekend was the RAK half marathon and it was superbly organised and well supported by runners from all over region, so clearly running is a popular past-time but from what I could see, mainly with the expat community from around the world. So I think it's fair to say that sport has a high profile and the grander spectacles have a lot of investment passed their way. What remains to be seen is when or how much of this money finds it's way to grass roots level, where it can foster participation from local participants and produce professional sports people from the region. From my experience with the LTA in the UK, this can take quite a while!
Whilst on a sports theme, I have watched about ten minutes of the winter Olympics. What I saw was the relay skeleton bob, or it may have been the luge, I'm not sure of the difference? 'Relay' I hear you say, 'how does that work'? Well I'm glad you asked. First up a lady in Lycra laying flat on her back on tiny tray with blades on. She thunders down the track and at the end slaps/punches a flap hanging over the run which activates a green light at the top and voilá, the next person on the team starts their descent. This was a bloke on a tray and when he gets to the flap the last team members go, a two-up tray. Yes tray, not a bullet shaped bob sleigh where they sit in tandem, just a tray with one guy laying on his back atop it and another laying on top of him, like a Lycra sandwich. Suffice to say the homophobic element who insisted that the Olympics had to be 'gay free' must have been have been livid. Not that I'm suggesting anything about the sexuality of the Olympians, I'm just saying that it's as camp as having the Village People in the event, although that would be good viewing and for me it would liven up what is a fairly dull sporting spectacle. Imagine the commentator saying 'that's the Czechoslovakian Native American finishing in a good time but not enough to beat the Romanian dressed as leather bondage guy. The builder is languishing in last place but happy to give a quote for re-roofing the commentary box'...
I just need to think of how they can liven up the 'skiing a long way on flat ground then shooting some little discs' event. At the moment I'm considering replacing the little targets with ducks on conveyor belt in a fair ground style? If you get all five you can have anything off the top shelf or a goldfish in a plastic bag, much better than medals..
This week I thought I'd offer some real-time information to anyone reading this with the intention of moving out to the region.
Unless things have changed dramatically since we left the old country (sorry, countries), the NHS is often a hot topic in the news. I think I'm right in saying there are only three stories about it but they keep on coming round the carousel.
Story 1 - The NHS is underfunded and therefore nurses and junior doctors are working 25 hour days for nothing more than a cup of gruel and a good thrashing should they complain.
Story 2 - The NHS is underfunded and therefore waiting times in A&E are now so long that they recently found the skeleton of King Harold in Hastings Royal Infirmary holding an arrow in one hand and a ticket with number 5956 in the other. The red electronic display board read 'now serving - 5955'.
Story 3 - The NHS is underfunded however there are now 25 managers for each cleaner and the management structure diagram looks like an inverted pyramid.
In some foreign climes they circumnavigate this thorny problem by following more simple route, they have no free health care at all. No cash, no doctor. Fortunately we receive medial insurance via our work, and for the less fortunate the government run hospital here is not too expensive, I think a visit to A & E is about £10, and from our experience it is very good. I say 'government run' because there are two hospitals, side by side, and the second is part of a Swiss medical group, a visit to A & E here is about £17.50, even with your insurance.
We've visited the private one a few times lately, not for anything serious but just for check ups on minor ailments, so we've had the opportunity to compare and contrast with the UK system.
Your first impression when you get there is that the hospital is actually more like a 5 star hotel. They have valet parking for goodness sake and if you're going in for a stay, a bell-hop takes your luggage in on a hotel style domed trolly. You then enter the well appointed reception and the initial thing they ask for is your insurance card. I don't know what they'd do if you didn't have one? Whether they would ask for cash up front or gamble on you doing a runner after your treatment? I guess if you couldn't prove your ability to pay they would send you round the corner to the state hospital and get you to ask for mercy?
Once you've seen the medical practitioner you pay up, and as the song goes 'the bigger the headache, the bigger the pill. The bigger the doctor, the bigger the bill'. His consultation is about £10, but bear in mind with all these costings that they are 20% of the full price as our insurance covers the rest, so the real cost is about £50. A collection of four blood tests costs us about £17.50, after which you can telephone the physician and if the results require no further investigation or no medication that's it. If they do need more consideration you have to pay for another consultation.
Here is one big difference. You see the doctor, he recommends blood tests which you take immediately in a nearby room. They then test them on site and text you to say they are ready for collection, often the same day or the next morning at the latest, all very quick. In the UK it used to take a week to get the results of tests, but we weren't paying up front for that, we had been paying since starting work. Overall the system here seems to work well, just as the NHS seems to work well for most people back home, with the huge difference being in the payment method. I guess the system in the UK and much of Europe is far more socially inclusive and in the UK being free at source, removes any worries people may have about getting advice on their problems.
The rule of thumb seems to be that if you are thinking of working abroad make sure that your employer is offering medical insurance as part of the deal. Ours does not cover dental and we are about to visit the dentist for the first time, I'll let you know how that works out!
Next week I thought I'd write a blog based on a 10cc lyric, 'Good morning judge how are you today?', 'Life is a minestrone'? No, I think I'll go with 'I don't like cricket, I love it'..!
Sky news yesterday were running a special day long feature about the flooding on the Somerset Levels, which if you ask me is maybe not as descriptive a name as they could have had. Maybe they should have considered 'Somerset just under Sea Level'? Anyhey, suffice to say I now know a lot more about that region, which is not difficult as I hadn't heard the name 24 hours ago.
What I have learned is that the area was drained around the 12th century (or since before the Doomsday Book if you believe Wikipedia, and I often choose to..) and up until reasonably recent times, has survived serious flooding since their creation by man made interventions such as dredging and pumping . Which if you think about it must have meant that some people really wanted to live there back in the day when all that work must have been done by hand, maybe with a little help from an ox? If I were a betting man I'd say they didn't have any choice as the landed gentry had nicked all the ground high enough to stay dry. I'm sure once the poor had drained and cultivated the swamp the lords taxed them on the produce that came out of the ground, such is the way of things. Oh no, I feel my French Republican side coming out, that's what happens when you spend ten years living the Entente Cordial. Even now I can hear La Marseillaise playing the background, 'Contre nous de la tyrannie'... Anyway, according to an irate local councillor being interviewed by the Sky news reporter, and he was very irate, life was good there and the drainage was being taken care of efficiently by local people up until around twenty years ago. They suffered minor flooding from time to time but this cleansing action was actually good for the environment, so a balance was being struck in the nature there. Then up rocked the Environment Agency..
The government department decided that the whole thing would be better managed by them, relieving the locals of the bother that they'd had for the last nine hundred years or so. I don't know about you, but the picture that springs in to my mind immediately is a patronising civil servant in a bowler hat and holding a brief case and umbrella, talking down to a smock wearing yokel with a straw in his mouth and holding a pitch-fork and jug of scrumpy? After all what would the locals know about it, they'd only been living there for the best part of a millennium? But I'm sure the guy with the suit had plenty of reports to show how much money they could save by centralising control of the area, besides, they weren't giving anyone a choice in the matter.
So the first thing the EA do is stop dredging, the second is to take control of when to switch on the pumps. Now I'm no scientist nor am I a mathematician, but I have a feeling that if you take a deep vessel and you take a shallow chalice, you can fit more fluid in the former? Eureka. This has nothing to do with the vessel having a pestle being compared with a chalice from the palace, thanks Danny... With less space to run in to the water did what water does, it found the route of least resistance and flowed where it wanted, mainly in to fields then in to people's houses. At which point the locals started to call Whitehall and ask if they wouldn't mind switching the pumps on please? 'Don't worry we'll switch them on when it's necessary' came the reply, meanwhile in Somerset the cat floated by on a coffee table..
What really made me smile was that after an area the size of Bristol had been under water for a month, the Government emergence committee swung in to action. Thanks for speedy response, the horse has not only already bolted, but it's in the 3.30 at Sandown..
This committee is called COBR and pronounced the same as cobra or /ˈkəʊ.brə/ for my CELTA friends (that means you Michael, Renate and Kati. I don't know of any others who read this?), and it stands for the Cabinet Office Briefing Room. I'm sure the macho name resonated well in the ears of the officials who came up with it. You normally hear it used when the group is being put together to combat a terrorist threat or consider military action, so the aggressive connotation with a poisonous snake is perhaps apt. However when dealing with a flood it seems like overkill. More of the frenzied Corporal Jones' 'don't panic, don't panic' to what would have been a more re-assuring response from Sergeant Wilson of 'don't worry we're on the case'. I would suggest the government form a second committee for these internal, not threatening invasion type of crises and name it something more appropriate. Nothing too soft like BUBBLES or BUNNY, but maybe CARE or RELAX. These aren't acronyms of course, how much spare time do you think I have to write this?! They could take the concept further and their hold music for when you call them could be Bob Marley singing 'Don't worry about a thing' or even better Bobby McFerrin and his 'Don't worry, be happy'. (What is it about reggae singers having the initials B.M. and singing songs that begin with the word 'Don't'? Is that common? They must have been well peeved when Brian May was on 'Don't stop me now', that ruined the run..)
What's the moral of the story then? I would offer that the cheapest option is not always the best or don't always trust the experts, oh and I would rename the area Atlantis, best be honest..
For those of you reading this via Expat Blog and expecting news from the UAE, I can only apologise. Normal service will be resumed shortly, but as a quick update - everything is fine here, they are introducing National Service for the local lads, the weather has been warm and Carrefour are doing buy one get one free on Digestive biscuits. Mustn't grumble, apple crumble..
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u often hear about how hospitable various nationalities are, but it's not until you experience it that you truly understand how enriching it is meeting people from different parts of the world.
You may know that Amélie is very keen, some would say obsessed, with: horses, mermaids, unicorns, princesses and Tinkerbell. Looking through the list, there is only one thing that we can get her regular contact with, hence we take her horse riding when we can. The first time we did that over here we went to a very impressive and professional stables, an Arabic dude ranch. It was huge and clearly catered for a lot of horses that belonged to ex-pats and other wealthy people. It had a walk-through pool for rehabilitation of the pampered mounts and an arena with an impressive VIP lounge containing seating in the Louis XV style, rather than the dusty plastic benches we were used to in the riding school we went to in the UK.
The problem was that they didn't do group lessons for her and she got a bit bored being on her own. One of Domi's students then mentioned that her father runs a stables and we could go along with Amélie if we liked? So up we rocked, and suffice to say it was the complete opposite of our first experience of riding schools out here. For a start it was at the end of an unmade road, the sort I'd only seen before in Ewan McGregor and Charlie Boorman documentaries. The kind of track with holes big enough to swallow a Toyota Yaris, in fact if they're still looking for Lord Lucan and Amelia Earheart...? Anyway, at the end of which appeared our destination.
This was not a dude ranch with pampered ex-pats posing about in their Burberry outfits. It had a far more rustic appearance (read between the lines, I used to be an estate agent, I can only apologise...) and was a hive of activity with large numbers of local children and their parents obviously getting very involved with every aspect of the goings on. Domi and Amélie felt at home straight away with the informality of the place, while I was (in my English way..) thinking 'but who's in charge, where is the health and safety, are there not strict start times to the classes, why are there people seemingly riding around all over the place, why is the car park not clearly signed, where is the order????'. You see I come from an environment where you turn up to attend a class at a certain time, where you are assessed to see what level you are, where there are lists, rules, regulations & systems for everything?
This was far more organic. It transpired that there was order, there were people in charge, there are systems, they're just hidden below a thin surface of informality. Informality, we English don't do that very well. Have these people not seen Downton Abbey? We didn't build the Empire on informality, we did it with a stiff upper lip, a starched collar and a complete disregard for the opinions of anyone who had the temerity to already live there.
To the untrained eye kids were turning up, being given a helmet and then plonked on the nearest thing with four legs before allowed to roam willy-nilly inside a corral. But after a little time you realised that the participants were quite happy about this and the Captain (the guy in charge) was actually being very efficient in matching the horses with the riders. After introductions Amélie was helmeted, given a steed then led round. She clearly enjoyed the fact that there was a lot of children doing the same thing, she felt part of the group rather than being on her lonesome.
We were the only non-Emerati family there, so would have fully understood if everyone had just left us to our own devices, but his is where the hospitality began. While the place is owned by our host Salem, it is more of a co-operative than profit making organisation. People started coming up to us to make conversation, offer us food and drink, to find out where we are from, to be friendly and interested. My stiff upper lip was quivering, my in-built reserve assaulted like French cavalry attacking my regimental squares at Waterloo, 'why are these strangers talking to me? Don't they know we don't do that?'. I was Michael Caine in the Middle East version of Zulu but instead of throwing spears, the locals are sauntering up to my barricades and asking 'where are you from? How nice to meet you, would you like some cake?'. Maybe that's what the Zulus were trying to do when the first volley cut them down? Perhaps they were using their shields to protect the scones they had made from the dust? 'Don't bother sending in the second wave with the jam and cream boys, I don't think the redcoats are interested. Are you sure they didn't order Battenburg?'. I know people in the UK who commute to work on the same bus/train every day and never speak to the person who sits next to them, even though it is the same person day in, day out.
It turns out people take along food and drink to share, and quite a selection it was. 'Try this drink, we call it custard, it contains saffron'. 'It can't be the same as custard at home' I thought so gratefully took a small cup, it was custard like at home but thin enough to drink and very nice. We had dates, cake, coffee, and when you tried to politely refuse (I hadn't drank coffee for 25 years until two weeks ago when I had a small cup foisted upon me on a boat trip, but that's another story..) they were equally polite in their insistence. They desperately wanted to share with you and be hospitable, to make you feel welcome.
Suffice to say we've been back a couple of times since and the reception has been the same and we're grateful for the opportunity that fate has given us to see this side of local life. I guess it's the same for lots of things. Saying 'yes' opens you up to a world of possibilities, saying 'no' leaves the door closed. My recommendation would be to say 'yes' as often as you can, even if it means braving the custard. After all if that's the worst thing that happens how bad can it be?
Most visitors to Ras al Khaimah come for the sun, beach and excellent hotels. It's around an hour or so from Dubai but far less hectic, so you can visit the big city then retire to our quieter surroundings to recuperate.
Being given the opportunity to live here for a while means that if you are so inclined, you can try to see and learn a little bit more about the history and culture of the UAE. Yesterday we managed to experience some of both.
We had heard from friends about a couple of abandoned villages in the area, but details on how to get to these places were sketchy. There doesn't seem to be an equivalent of the National Trust here so you don't see roadside signage saying 'This way to the derelict town'. You have to adopt the attitude that part of the fun is getting lost while finding the place, which is why if you want to do that sort of thing you need to get the right car. If I digress and explain what I mean by that, it will also give you an insight in to the Emirati way of lateral thinking!
Much of the road system here is excellent. We have two motorways linking us with Dubai, one of which then continues to Abu Dhabi and beyond. They are wide and smooth and often un-congested, until you get to the suburbs of Sharjah and Dubai when they become like any other city expressway, which is not very express at all. Likewise the main roads around RAK are pretty good. Some of the planning is a bit confusing when you first arrive, but once you get the hang of the thought process behind driving here you realise it all seems to work.
Here is the 'however' though.. However once you get off the main strip the situation can change in a couple of meters, and you can be on a rutted, sandy track or even just sand. Sometimes excellent road surfaces can have sections of up to a couple of hundred meters of rough track randomly spaced along their route. Hence a lot of people buy SUVs and 4x4s to give them the ability to get through the light off road sections you often have to negotiate. However if you buy a really capable 4x4 it's not so comfortable on the highway, and if you get an SUV it can cope with the light rough but will get stuck when the going gets tough. Your own personal usage dictates which side of the compromise you choose, but not if you've got a few quid. The view is often that if the roads are not going to get better you need to consider cars as you would your shoes. You have one for the country, one for the city, one for long drives, one if you're going on your own and another if the family are coming along. It is not unusual at all for people to have five cars and think nothing of it!
Back to the ghost town.. We manage to find roughly the right location for the deserted village and kept going until the road ran out, then pushed on a bit further. Firstly it looked like any other small suburb of RAK and clearly was predominantly inhabited by migrant workers from the Indian sub-continent, many of whom were enjoying their day off and playing a bit of cricket or hanging out with their friends. There were the usual small shops and houses, nothing remarkable until we realised that immediately next to this scene of normal life were a collection of buildings which were ram-shackled, and then the fort appeared.
We tried to drive around what was now obviously our destination but it soon became clear that the design of the village pre-dated the popularity of the car, so we parked next to the fort (easy landmark to navigate back to!) and set off on foot. The 'keep out' sign seemed only to apply to the fort, which was fenced off!
The first thing to strike me was that we were alone in the rubble strewn streets. Just a few hundred meters away people walked past and carried on with their daily lives, but there was no-one else taking a tour of this part of town. Some of the paths had the appearance of having been cleared but the smaller ones, which were passages in between the houses, were covered in rubble. There was a mosque, shops still with stands outside where their wares would have been displayed, and a lot of houses. We've been to a deserted town before, one which had a sad tale to tell, Oradour-sur-Glane in France. Hundreds of people had been massacred in Oradour during WWII so naturally it had an eerie feel, even though there were lots of visitors. Jazirat also had this feeling. There is something strange when you are in a village and there are no people about. You keep expecting someone to walk out of a house, or to hear a phone ring or dog bark. The silence is unusual and unnerving. On one trip to the Somme we stayed in a converted barn adjacent to a farmhouse, and if I was ever going to have a spiritual encounter I would have thought this would be the place. Savage fighting had taken place in the immediate vicinity and during recent building work the owner had found human remains. The poor souls who perished there would have had every reason to be restless, but my nature is to think they would not be malevolent, just sorrowful.
It soon became apparent why the buildings were is such a poor state of repair. OK, they were not being maintained but why did everything seem to be falling down? A closer look at the bricks and mortar gave the answer. They were made out of sand and material from the nearby beach, there were shells and fossilised coral in abundance and without regular maintenance it was all returning to its natural state. This meant that some of the walls were precariously balanced and others just fallen heaps.
It was getting late in the day so we headed back to the car and once home, I looked the village up on the internet. This is where we learned the various rumors and speculation about why it is abandoned and how it is commonly thought to be haunted! I'm normally an i's dotted and t's crossed sort of guy and tend to research places that we visit beforehand, so finding this out afterwards was a bit of a surprise! Just in case you want to know more, here is one of the many websites which feature Jazirat:
http://thepurplejournal.wordpress.com/2011/02/07/jaziratalhamra/
Would we go back again, knowing the history of the place? Probably, but in daylight! I'm not sure if I believe in ghosts or not, never having seen one, and I have a sceptical view of mediums. If a relative who has passed away wants to get in touch with me I kind of understand how the spirit world would only allow this through the talents of a medium. But why they have to go through the whole charade of 'I think there is someone trying to get through... Their name begins with B or it could be P? ..... It's something to do with paper and plastic....' is beyond me?! If they said 'your recently passed away Uncle Brian says he's left a million pounds in cash in a plastic bucket under the sink' then I'd be easier to convince. And before you send any begging emails, I didn't have an Uncle Brian and I don't have a million pounds..
Next week, Arabic hospitality. How I fell out of my comfort zone and into the metaphorical arms of the most welcoming people I've ever met.
Whenever you talk to anyone about living abroad and in particular somewhere with a warmer climate, they tend to ask what it's like at Christmas, well now we know.
As you would expect, it is close to a non event up here. Dubai gets a little bit more festive probably due to their higher percentage of expats but in the malls here you have to look hard to find reminders that it is the 'season to be jolly'.
Fortunately we live in a region where thousands of people come on holiday so there are several large hotels happy to cater for their guests' inclinations to put on a Santa hat and rock around the Christmas tree (but I've never understood what the 'new old fashioned way' is..?). Hence we have been to three parties laid on by the biggest hotels and have been treated to trees, decorations, Santa, (who we've actually seen five times now, shouldn't he have been concentrating on getting ready for the big day?!) carols, mulled wine, mince pies, pretty much everything that we would have had at home really.
But it doesn't feel Christmassy. For that I think you have to have the winter weather, dark evenings arriving early, chestnuts roasting on an open fire, being crushed in the shops, endless seasonal TV shows and films, Christmas songs being played on a loop on the radio, and we haven't had any of that. It does make you realise how much pressure the media and business put on you to have a good time, and in their time frame. As everything is open here right through the season, there is no obligation to cram in your Christmas shopping. Domi sorted out the footwear for her Christmas day outfit on Christmas day itself!
New Year is a different matter, that is celebrated and we've noticed an increase in activity in the Malls as everyone gets ready to see it in. Inevitably when you get to these bench mark dates you reflect on the past twelve months and consider what might happen in the next twelve, maybe even make a resolution or two.
I've never been one for resolutions but I do like to look back and remember what was going on this time last year. At that time we had two meetings planned early in 2013, one in January and one in February, which we hoped were going to provide us with opportunities to have an adventure abroad. Both fell as flat as pancakes and in ways that left us in no doubt that we were not going anywhere else this year. So we moved on to plan B and began putting things in place to resurrect our plans for 2014. Then out of the blue Domi received an email, had a Skype interview which was sketchy, as Skype often is, and then received a job offer. So by August we were here, something we could not have predicted in February!
Maybe that's why I like to look back as much as forward, the future is so unpredictable that you may as well relax and enjoy it. I do believe in giving yourself every chance to achieve your goals, affecting things that you can to put you in the right place at the right time as much as possible. But that doesn't mean your wishes are going to come true, just don't give up. I like to think it through, make a plan then do my best to make it happen. If it does, it does and if it doesn't tant pis, keep moving forward!
Happy new year to you all from the Ras al Khaimah crew! xxx
